Episode 29: Stefanie Fernandes: Rules of the Mind - How to Become the Best Version of Yourself for You and Your Kids - Innovative and Effective

Would you like a more authentic and loving relationship with your child?

My guest today is Stefanie Fernandes!! She will be sharing with us how we can become the best version of ourselves for you AND your kids to create a more authentic and loving relationship. Her method is both Innovative and Effective.

Stefanie is a certified Rapid Transformational Therapist, specializing in working with parents to become the best version of themselves in order to establish and maintain an authentic and loving relationship with their children. She brings together psychotherapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, neurolinguistic programming, and neuroscience in one hypnotherapy session, to enable deep transformations for her clients.

I love how Stefanie wants to bring authentic and loving relationships to every parent and their child. It is beautiful and that is what the world needs more of!

This ability to connect deeper and more authentically with our children starts with us being able to connect to ourselves.

Stefanie shares how using RTT (Rapid Transformational Therapist) by first understanding what that parent's triggers are. It can be as simple as you make your child’s favorite meal for dinner and then they won’t eat it. So that throws the whole meal on the floor.

What is really triggering you here?

This is a very typical childlike behavior. But as parents, there is something more to it, something deeper to our reaction. 

These triggers can block us from truly becoming who we want to be. In RTT we go back and find the root cause for where adn when we developed a certain belief. That is often deeply rooted in our own childhood, how we have experienced our own childhood. 

Stefanie also finds amazing results from RTT with children!

Stefanie really makes an amazing point that we put too much on ourselves as parents. We have these children and all of a sudden have to know how to do everything perfectly well. Be a chef, chauffeur, monitor TV, take care of yourself, work, say the right things. You see the mom that looks like she has it all together. She doesn’t Nobody does. We see the sides of people that they choose to show. That’s ok because they do that to protect themselves, but we don’t need to believe that. 

However, hypnosis and RTT can help you to connect with your inner self due to the direct link to your intuition and to your inner guide that you can reach through hypnosis due to not being distracted by your conscious brain. We often lose that inner guidance as we grow. 

IF you’d like to find out more about Stefanie you can follow her and connect with her on Facebook or her Website.

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